Finally I decided to write this down
By no means of being the righteous or anything, as only human, please correct me if i wrote something wrong
Long posting (read it carefully)
Few months back, I conducted a verbal survey with:
- 20 correspondents
- 19 are Moslem from birth, age all above 30, all have a steady income
- 3 are not married yet, 4 female, 16 male
- 2 already taken the journey
all are my friends, survey over a friendly verbal conversations.
I asked them one direct question:
- “When will you take the journey (again)?”
18 of them quickly responded with these answers :
- “when i’m ready, maybe..”
- “i don’t know…”
- “when i’m (spiritually) ready, maybe…”
- “when i have enough money…maybe”
- “maybe when i’m XX…” (stating a number of a certain age)
- “maybe after i got married..”
- “maybe in about xx years from now…” (stating a certain number of year)
- “after my kid is xx years old..maybe” (stating a certain age)
- and other similiar maybe-answers
in my opinion, YOU SHOULD AVOID AND OMIT that “maybe” kind of answers..



